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Tuesday, June 16, 2009


This is going to be a fairly short post because the typist (aka mom) is moody.

Tomorrow marks the first year anniversary of the day we lost
Angel Lucas. It's a cliche, but time really does fly. It's hard to imagine that only 365 days ago, mom lost the most important thing that really ever mattered to her. Mom still leaks when she comes across things that reminds her of her little one lost.

On Sunday, she was choosing a Father's Day card for grandpapa when a cute, kiddy looking card caught her attention. The front of the card says 'For My Daddy from Your Little Boy'. Mom had a minor meltdown on the spot because the card just tugged a chord in her.

Contrary to what some people say, time really doesn't heal all wounds. The only thing that time does it that it allows you to learn how to cope with having that wound.
We are still missing our sweet little boy every single day.



--- Thinking of you and with lots of love always from Daddy, Mommy, Your Adoring Big Brother Huskee and Your Destructive (but occasionally Sweet) Big Sister Hershey.



31 comments:

DoMoFi said...

I'm bad at consoling.

DoMo would like to give you this e-card. :)

http://www.123greetings.com/encouragement_and_inspiration/stressbusters/stress23.html

Amber-Mae said...

Okay, this post is making Mommy leaky. We all haven't forgotten about little Angel Lucas as well...

Smoochies,
Solid Gold "Actress"

Molly the Airedale said...

Hugs to your mom! She and your dad are in our thoughts!

Love ya lots,
Maggie and Mitch

NAK and The Residents of The Khottage Now With KhattleDog! said...

Your mom y is right - things like this never heal but the love and support of furiends khan help lessen the pain -

Please pass along some EXTRA hugz&Khysses from US!

Khyra and Her Mom

Mango the Maltese kiddo said...

Hugs and kisses to you Auntie!
Angel Lucas has us cousins Mango Chubs and Ximui who thinking of him with lots of love too.
Here's my shoulder, let the loving tears roll on that, my beloved Auntie!
My mom is leaking now, let me lend her the other shoulder!

Raising Addie said...

Huskee and Hershey please give your mom and dad lots of kisses from us.

You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers today.

We really wish we could take all of your pain away.

Chasing my tale...
Addie, Lucie, and Hailey

Kasha said...

You guys broke my heart a little bit today. I am so sorry to your mom and for your loss. So sorry. I can't be sorry enough. Sending you a hug from me, and a wet kiss from Africa.

Simba and Jazzi said...

We are sending your Mum lots of hugs. Where did that year go?!

Simba and Jazzi xx

Samantha ~ Holly and Zac ~ said...

Hugs to you all for tomorrow. You will be in our thoughts.

Holly & Zac...XX

Arran, Arthur and Mum said...

We be sending lots of hugs too. :(

Lacy said...

w00fs, we remember angel baby Lucas too..ur are all in out thoughts and prayers...its not easy losing sumone we love..takes time to heal..and sumtimes we never completely heal..

a sad,
rocky
bear
angel lacylulu
and mama..

♥♥ The OP Pack ♥♥ said...

So true, time doesn't heal a lot of things. We are also thinking of you and Angel Lucas.

Hugs, the OP Pack and Mom

Ms. ~K said...

So very sorry...

Asta said...

Huskee
and Hershey

I am saying my pwayews along wif Mommi to make this day easiew fow youw loving mommi.
The pain will always be thew I think, but we awe hoping it will lessen a little wif time. I know angel Lucas is looking down on all of you fwom heaven adn holking all of you in his heawt.
Mommi , Daddi and I awe thinking of you wif love!
smoochie kisses
ASTA

Bee Bee said...

Dear Mum of Huskee and Hershey

HuGGiesssssssssssssss

Cheers
Bee Bee

Lorenza said...

Give lots of kisses and hugs to Mom and Dad!
We are thinking of you.
Lorenza

Chow Chow said...

Lots of hugs from Chow Chow and Mummy.

Dexter said...

Yes, we always carry the memories in our hearts. Sigh.

Mango Momma

Stanley said...

Sweet Mama de Huskee & Hershey!

We LOVE you and send you some extra juicy goob smooches to remind you of that. We wish we could have known baby Lucas!

Goober love,
Stanley

Pedro said...

Huskee & Hershey,

We are thinking about your mom today and hope she's doing ok. Please give her lots of licks from me and my brother Ziggy too.

Pedro

Fenway said...

I sent a prayer to Angel Lucas, H&H. Yes, time flies, but a good dog will always stay put in your heart.

Your pal,
Fenway

Gus, Louie and Callie said...

Oh we are so sorry that mom feels so bad. You all need to give her big HUGS today...

Big Sloppy Kisses
Gus, Louie and Callie

Moco said...

Baby Lucas will never be forgotten.

JB's Big and Small Worlds said...

WE hope your mom is doing ok on this day. Time does pass but the pain will be with her. Huskee....you and Hershey need to help your mom feel better, ok?
Purrs to your mom,
JB, Chester and our mom too

the many Bs said...

we are sad that your mom is sad and missing Angel Lucas. it is right, what she said about time not healing all wounds. time just goes by and you still feel sad. we want to give your mom some sweet poodle fluffs and licks. Lucas is in heaven, watching over you.

sad woofs

Marvin -The Hollow Hound said...

We never forget those who we have loved............

life is so sad sometimes, and so unfair.

thinking of you at this sad time.

you know my thoughts are with you with regard to Lucas....

your friend across the oceans, Jeannie xxxx oh and Marvin xxxxx

Lady Kaos said...

BIG HUGS to all of you. Mom has been kind of moody lately, too and has needed lots of extra hugs.
Love you guys!!
Kaos

Mango the Maltese kiddo said...

Happy Father's Day to Huskee&Hershey's great dad.
Love ya lots

Two Schnauzers from New England said...

Hi, Huskee and Hershey -

We are sooooooo sorry that we did not see this until now. We don't know what to write because Mama agrees with you but we are sending you healing licks and paw hugs at this difficult time.

XXOOXXOO

Love -

Hershey and Kaci

Alfie's Mum said...

i know how it feels like, i lost my beloved one too. i console myself that she no longer has a physical form and is able to travel in time / space wherever i go.
Lucas has become your angel boy just like Fi is my angel girl.

Martha said...

We are so sorry - you are right, there are some wounds that no amount of time every really heals.
We are there with you for so many reasons, you have touched a chord with us too. xxxx